31 January 2012, 12:14 pm
Usually I'm the one that gives the amazing relationship advice, but right now, I don't know what exactly to do. Someone once told me that guys don't take hints that well, even if they are extremely obvious and I'm really thinking the guy I like is clueless to me having a crush on him. I text him back and forth like every other day. Sometimes are conversations are flirty, sometimes I'm out of breath from laughing so hard, some times he's just there to help me through something, and others it's just, well, boring... I read that if a guy pauses his video game just to text you back, marry him. But the last two times I asked he was playing xbox, and the first time it was his favorite college football team (the boy is obsessed with the Oregon Ducks! haha) and he still took the time to text me back within a couple minutes. I asked him to come over this last weekend, but he got drunk at some twin guys' 21 birthday, so he told me he didn't think it was a good idea to drive over. I admitted I probably wouldn't have talked to him anyways because he intimidated me, but he was drunk, so he probably didn't understand what I meant by that, I don't know. The major problem is that I'm 17, a Senior in high school, and he's 21, and we both graduate (me from high school, him from college) in June, but our ages are so far apart... I know him because our families are really good friends. So my question (sorry this is so long) is can someone tell me what to do in this position? I keep telling myself not to tell him, but I really want to. But I don't know how he'll react and I really don't want our families finding out about any of this... only my dad's girlfriend and somewhat my dad knows we text back and forth, so... any help?... Read More »